“Pray for us, Pastor…”

9780334055082Today we offer you the last of our extracts from Dietrich Bonhoeffer’s Letters and Papers from Prison. In this extract from a letter to his friend Eberhard Bethge, Bonhoeffer moves from arguing for the importance of Old Testament for Christian faith, to commenting on the every day reality of discipleship behind bars. 


To Eberhard Bethge

Advent II [5 December 1943]

. . . My thoughts and feelings seem to be getting more and more like those of the Old Testament, and in recent months I have been reading the Old Testament much more than the New. It is only when one knows the unutterability of the name of God that one can utter the name of Jesus Christ; it is only when one loves life and the earth so much that without them everything seems to be over that one may believe in the resurrection and a new world; it is only when one submits to God’s law that one may speak of grace; and it is only when God’s wrath and vengeance are hanging as grim realities over the heads of one’s enemies that something of what it means to love and forgive them can touch our hearts. In my opinion it is not Christian to want to take our thoughts and feelings too quickly and too directly from the New Testament. We have already talked about this several times, and every day confirms my opinion. One cannot and must not speak the last word before the last but one. We live in the last but one and believe the last, don’t we? Lutherans (so-called!) and pietists would shudder at the thought, but it is true all the same. In The Cost of Discipleship (ch. 1) I just hinted at this, but did not follow it up; I must do so later. But the logical conclusions are far-reaching, e.g. for the problem of Catholicism, for the concept of the ministry, for the use of the Bible, etc., and above all for ethics. Why is it that in the Old Testament men tell lies vigorously and often to the glory of God (I’ve now collected the passages), kill, deceive, rob, divorce, and even fornicate (see the genealogy of Jesus), doubt, blaspheme, and curse, whereas in the New Testament there is nothing of all this? ‘An earlier stage’ of religion? That is a very naïve way out; it is one and the same God. But more of this later when we meet.

Meanwhile evening has come. The NCO who has just brought me from the sick-bay to my quarters said to me as he left, with an embarrassed smile but quite seriously, ‘Pray for us, Pastor, that we may have no alert tonight.’ . . .

For some time I’ve been taking my daily walk with a man who has been a District Orator, Regional Leader, Government Director, former member of the governing body of the German-Christian Church in Brunswick, and is at present a Party Leader in Warsaw. He has completely gone to pieces here, and clings to me just like a child, consulting me about every little thing, telling me whenever he has cried, etc. After being very cool with him for several weeks, I’m now able to ease things for him a little; his gratitude is quite touching, and he tells me again and again how glad he is to have met a man like me here. Well, the strangest situations do come about; if only I could tell you properly about them!


The new edition of Letters and Papers from Prison, with an introduction by Samuel Wells, is published later this month. 

“…We are being driven right back to the beginnings of our understanding…”

9780334055082In today’s extract from Letters and Papers from Prison, Bonhoeffer writes a baptism letter to his great nephew. With words that still resonate deeply in our own time, he reflects on what sort of world, and what sort of Church, his great-nephew might grow up to inhabit. 


Thoughts on the Day of the Baptism of Dietrich Wilhelm Rüdiger Bethge

 May 1944

You are the first of a new generation in our family, and therefore the oldest representative of your generation. You will have the priceless advantage of spending a good part of your life with the third and fourth generation that went before you. Your great-grandfather will be able to tell you, from his own personal memories, of people who were born in the eighteenth century; and one day, long after the year 2000, you will be the living bridge over which your descendants will get an oral tradition of more than 250 years – all this sub conditione Jacobea, ‘if the Lord wills’. So your birth provides us with a suitable occasion to reflect on the changes that time brings, and to try to scan the outlines of the future.

The three names that you bear refer to three houses with which your life is, and always should be, inseparably connected. Your grandfather on your father’s side lived in a country parsonage. A simple, healthy life, with wide intellectual interests, joy in the most homely things, a natural and unaffected interest in ordinary people and their work, a capacity for self-help in practical things, and a modesty grounded in spiritual contentment – those are the earthly values which were at home in the country parsonage, and which you will meet in your father. In all the circumstances of life you will find them a firm basis for living together with other people, and for achieving real success and inward happiness.

The urban middle-class culture embodied in the home of your mother’s parents has led to pride in public service, intellectual achievement and leadership, and a deep-rooted sense of duty towards a great heritage and cultural tradition. This will give you, even before you are aware of it, a way of thinking and acting which you can never lose without being untrue to yourself.

It was a kindly thought of your parents that you should be known by the name of your great-uncle, who is a pastor and a great friend of your father’s; he is at present sharing the fate of many other good Germans and Protestant Christians, and so he has only been able to participate at a distance in your parents’ wedding and in your own birth and baptism, but he looks forward to your future with great confidence and cheerful hope. He is striving to keep up the spirit – as far as he understands it – that is embodied in his parents’ (your great-grandparents’) home. He takes it as a good omen for your future that it was in that home that your parents got to know each other, and he hopes that one day you will be thankful for its spirit and draw in the strength that it gives.

By the time you have grown up, the old country parsonage and the old town villa will belong to a vanished world. But the old spirit, after a time of misunderstanding and weakness, withdrawal and recovery, preservation and rehabilitation, will produce new forms. To be deeply rooted in the soil of the past makes life harder, but it also makes it richer and more vigorous. There are in human life certain fundamental truths to which men will always return sooner or later. So there is no need to hurry; we have to be able to wait. ‘God seeks what has been driven away’ (Eccles. 3.15)

In the revolutionary times ahead the greatest gift will be to know the security of a good home. It will be a bulwark against all dangers from within and without. The time when children broke away in arrogance from their parents will be past. Children will be drawn into their parents’ protection, and they will seek refuge, counsel, peace, and enlightenment. You are lucky to have parents who know at first hand what it means to have a parental home in stormy times. In the general impoverishment of intellectual life you will find your parents’ home a storehouse of spiritual values and a source of intellectual stimulation. Music, as your parents understand and practise it, will help to dissolve your perplexities and purify your character and sensibility, and in times of care and sorrow will keep a ground-bass of joy alive in you. Your parents will soon be teaching you to help yourself and never to be afraid of soiling your hands. The piety of your home will not be noisy or loquacious, but it will teach you to pray, to fear and love God above everything, and to do the will of Jesus Christ. ‘My son, keep your father’s commandment, and forsake not your mother’s teaching. Bind them upon your heart always; tie them about your neck. When you walk, they will lead you; when you lie down, they will watch over you; and when you awake, they will talk with you’ (Prov. 6.20–22). ‘Today salvation has come to this house’ (Luke 19.9).

I wish you could grow up in the country; but it will not be the countryside in which your father grew up. People used to think that the big cities offered the fullest kind of life and lots of pleasure, and they used to flock to them as though to a festival; but those cities have now brought on themselves death and dying, with all imaginable horrors, and have become fearsome places from which women and children have fled.…

…We shall have to keep our lives rather than shape them, to hope rather than plan, to hold out rather than march forward. But we do want to preserve for you, the rising generation, what will make it possible for you to plan, build up, and shape a new and better life.

We have spent too much time in thinking, supposing that if we weigh in advance the possibilities of any action it will happen automatically. We have learnt, rather too late, that action comes, not from thought, but from a readiness for responsibility. For you thought and action will enter on a new relationship; your thinking will be confined to your responsibilities in action. With us thought was often the luxury of the onlooker; with you it will be entirely subordinated to action. ‘Not every one who says to me, “Lord, Lord”, shall enter the kingdom of heaven, but he who does the will of my Father who is in heaven’, said Jesus (Matt. 7.21).

For the greater part of our lives pain was a stranger to us. To be as free as possible from pain was unconsciously one of our guiding principles. Niceties of feeling, sensitivity to our own and other people’s pain are at once the strength and the weakness of our way of life. From its early days your generation will be tougher and closer to real life, for you will have had to endure privation and pain, and your patience will have been greatly tried. ‘It is good for a man that he bear the yoke in his youth’ (Lam. 3.27).

We thought we could make our way in life with reason and justice, and when both failed, we felt that we were at the end of our tether. We have constantly exaggerated the importance of reason and justice in the course of history. You, who are growing up in a world war which ninety per cent of mankind did not want, but for which they have to risk losing their goods and their lives, are learning from childhood that the world is controlled by forces against which reason can do nothing; and so you will be able to cope with those forces more successfully…

…Today you will be baptized a Christian. All those great ancient words of the Christian proclamation will be spoken over you, and the command of Jesus Christ to baptize will be carried out on you, without your knowing anything about it. But we are once again being driven right back to the beginnings of our understanding. Reconciliation and redemption, regeneration and the Holy Spirit, love of our enemies, cross and resurrection, life in Christ and Christian discipleship – all these things are so difficult and so remote that we hardly venture any more to speak of them. In the traditional words and acts we suspect that there may be something quite new and revolutionary, though we cannot as yet grasp or express it. That is our own fault. Our church, which has been fighting in these years only for its self-preservation, as though that were an end in itself, is incapable of taking the word of reconciliation and redemption to mankind and the world. Our earlier words are therefore bound to lose their force and cease, and our being Christians today will be limited to two things: prayer and righteous action among men. All Christian thinking, speaking, and organizing must be born anew out of this prayer and action. By the time you have grown up, the church’s form will have changed greatly. We are not yet out of the melting-pot, and any attempt to help the church prematurely to a new expansion of its organization will merely delay its conversion and purification. It is not for us to prophesy the day (though the day will come) when men will once more be called so to utter the word of God that the world will be changed and renewed by it. It will be a new language, perhaps quite non-religious, but liberating and redeeming – as was Jesus’ language; it will shock people and yet overcome them by its power; it will be the language of a new righteousness and truth, proclaiming God’s peace with men and the coming of his kingdom. ‘They shall fear and tremble because of all the good and all the prosperity I provide for it’ (Jer. 33.9). Till then the Christian cause will be a silent and hidden affair, but there will be those who pray and do right and wait for God’s own time. May you be one of them, and may it be said of you one day. ‘The path of the righteous is like the light of dawn, which shines brighter and brighter till full day’ (Prov. 4.18)


The new edition of Letters and Papers from Prison, with a new introduction from Samuel Wells, is published at the end of the month. Find out more here. 

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To celebrate the publication of John Swinton’s new book Becoming Friends of Time, we’re giving you a chance to win 1 of 5 copies of his previous book Dementia: Living in the Memories of God which won the Michael Ramsey prize for theological writing in 2016. Archbishop Justin Welby said the book was “deeply challenging” and James Woodward, Principal at Sarum College, called it “a masterpiece”.


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A Perfect Crown: Towards a Liturgical Theology of Marriage

265502_hinking-again-about-marriage_4Follow the recent publication of the House of Bishops report “Marriage and Same Sex Relationships after the Shared Conversations”, now seems like a good time to revisit Thinking Again About Marriage, published by SCM Press last year and edited by John Bradbury and Susannah Cornwall. The book includes contributions from a broad theological and ecclesiological spectrum across the Christian tradition, and seeks to offer a useful resource for critical and clear thinking and reflective practice. 


In her Prologue to the Report of the House of Bishops Working Group on Human Sexuality, Jessica Martin acknowledges that we ‘cannot talk about same sex relationships in isolation’; nor can we say anything about human sexuality without ‘speaking first of our sense of the body and bodily relationships as holy’ (Martin 2013, p. xiv). Christianity is incarnational. In Christ, body and God come together; the life of the Church is characterized by the language of being a body with many members. Therefore anything we think about same-sex relationships, especially when we disagree, has ‘no value except as part of this larger vision of all our human relationships’ (Martin 2013, p. xiv).

Marriage is part of that larger vision. The language we use, the expectations and aspirations we have, are shaped liturgically. The liturgical character of marriage expresses a public commitment that is both exclusive and inclusive. Exclusivity in terms of ‘forsaking all others’ (CW, p. 106) is held alongside the expectation that marriage ‘enriches society and strengthens community’ (CW, p. 105). It expresses a generous and outward-looking aspect to this vocation – the gift of marriage is a source of ‘refreshment and joy’ (CW, p. 112) as well as ‘strength, companionship and comfort’ (CW, p. 105). This ‘perfect crown’ (Oliver 2012, p. 12) is an inclusive relationship that is connected to other forms of social life (to the wider community, including those who are single and networks of non-biological kinship). It is a way of expressing the call to holiness and discipleship rather than the only expression of maturity. Although marriage is a public celebration of intimacy, there is something provisional about it. Marriage is a way of life lived in the hope of the kingdom of God and in the face of death.

This chapter begins with a consideration of Rembrandt’s capacity to reflect on human relationships – and the way his painting The Jewish Bride conveys inclusivity and exclusivity. This expression of marriage is then set alongside the research and analysis of the Church of England’s Weddings Project. This serves to highlight the importance of drawing on a deep vein of resources to think about marriage, rather than colluding with the pressures of a wedding day. The liturgy draws us into God’s purposes and the promise of love. It does so recognizing the penultimate reality of our human frailty and the ultimate hope of God’s kingdom.

 ‘Let their love for each other be a seal on their hearts and a crown upon their heads’

The art critic Laura Cumming described the exhibition Rembrandt: The Late Works at the National Gallery in 2014–15 as presenting both ‘ethereal vision and earthly worlds’ (Cumming 2014). Rembrandt takes us on a journey through life, captivating us with moments of intensity. In these episodes something of the beyond breaks in. We are drawn into the company of the saints irradiated by light, and radiating that light into our lives as we encounter them. Rembrandt takes us to the heart of human life. He powerfully and compassionately enables us to gaze on faces that have loved and lost, hoped and endured. He lends dignity to our frailty, infusing every gesture and glance with grace. He holds us between life and death; without losing passion for the former he makes us confront the latter. No wonder that in her review, Cumming describes the exhibition as ‘dark, impassioned, magnificently defiant’ (2014).

Rembrandt looks on human beings with absolute attention; his portraits scrutinize us: the tenderness and sensuality of a sleeping woman; the injustice and brutality of a hanged teenager. We are caught up in Bathsheba’s moment of decision as she holds David’s letter – loyalty to king or husband weighs on her heart. We are captivated by the moment of distraction in the face of the young Titus, Rembrandt’s son, as he daydreams at his desk. We ponder what meaning, consolation or inspiration the old woman is finding in the book she is reading with undivided attention. Rembrandt captures things that are statements of public intent or position; he also draws back the veil on the inner thoughts of men and women. In one painting in particular, he reveals a love that is both a crown and a seal.

In The Jewish Bride the love of a nameless couple endures. The richness of the fabric catches the light yet pales in comparison to the luminescence of their faces. There is something compelling about these two individuals. Rembrandt has observed them with a depth of attention, with the result that the portrait has a profound impact: he reveals something recognizable and affecting; something that touches human longing. Cumming describes it as ‘a secular altarpiece, an inspiration to patience, humility and kindness’ (Cumming 2014). If it serves as an altarpiece, it is one that conveys the sacred. In paint and brushstroke, Rembrandt expresses what Christian liturgy declares in word and gesture.

Their posture captures the exclusive intimacy of love. It is a seal upon their hearts as their hands touch; hers resting on his, across her breast. Tenderly, yet without possession, his arm reaches across her shoulder. We do not know if they are newly married or celebrating the longevity of their commitment. They are not surrounded by an entourage or children; they are not gazing at each other. Regardless of their age, there is a maturity beyond romantic captivation. They look out at us with the assurance of companionship that is generative. They inspire and embody virtues – patience, humility and kindness. We see beyond the luxurious dress to a generous love that responds to others; a love that is a crown upon their heads.

In this painting Rembrandt presents a compelling and poignant vision of marriage. It reflects both the public and private aspects of that commitment. In doing so he echoes the words of the Song of Songs: ‘Set me as a seal upon your heart, as a seal upon your arm; for love is strong as death, passion fierce as the grave’ (Song of Songs 8.6). This conception of marriage is picked up within the Common Worship marriage service as the priest says: ‘Let their love for each other be a seal on their hearts and a crown upon their heads’ (CW, p. 111).

Such love is expressed in an intimate and exclusive relationship. It is not a solely private commitment because the married couple are connected to, and live within, a wider network of social life. Their exclusivity expresses an equally radical inclusivity. The liturgy gives voice to marriage as a way of life that reflects the call to holiness, the call to discipleship. It is not the only expression of such maturity, hope and living well. The language of covenant – inclusivity and exclusivity – is rooted in God’s faithfulness to us; it draws us into the inner life of the Trinity. Whatever our marital status, we share in this generative, loving fellowship. Robert Song writes that ‘in our finite covenant relationships, we bear witness to the eternal covenant relationships within the very being of God’ (Song 2014, p. 10). The language used of such transformed relationships is ‘holiness’ – with the cross of Christ as the crucible burning away the ‘fragmentation between human beings and God’; with worship as formative of a holy people, open to moral density and intimacy of relationships (Hardy 2002, pp. 490, 498).

All that marriage celebrates and affirms – intimacy, hospitality, exclusivity and inclusivity – is an expression of living well within the Church and world. Such life is costly and demanding; its abundance is rooted in vulnerability and fragility. The love it embodies is rooted in the mystery of incarnation and as such is an expression of life lived in hope of the kingdom of God. This is not least because it is life lived in the face of death, in the light of the resurrection. For some, marriage is primarily an expression of permanence, faithfulness and procreation; for others there is recognition of a series of shifts in the understanding of Christian marriage. I will argue that our liturgical expression of marriage deepens our understanding of participation in the kingdom of God. In addition it enables us to acknowledge the provisionality of such covenantal commitment in the face of the penultimate contingencies of life and death, and the ultimate consummation of the heavenly wedding banquet.

 ‘May their marriage be life-giving and life-long’

Before exploring the theological horizons of the liturgy it is worth pausing to consider the expectations of those seeking to get married in church. The Church of England Weddings Project, which began in 2007, set out to explore why couples choose to be married; it reflects their experience of the Church from the point of making initial contact to the wedding day and beyond. The project resulted in The Church Weddings Handbook (Oliver 2012), which is described in the Preface by Archbishop John Sentamu as a ‘wake-up call’ to clergy and parishes seeking to respond with warmth and imagination to those wanting to marry in church. He writes: ‘People want to be married in church … there is a recognition that there is something important in a wedding that only begins to make sense when there is space for the sacred’ (in Oliver 2012, pp. v–vi).

By drawing on conversations with couples and visits to hundreds of churches, the book seeks to dispel myths and complacency in order to give this pastoral office more impetus and to remove unnecessary barriers. John Barton reflects on the competition among secular wedding venues, which show no interests beyond the reception. He says, ‘Surely we, the servants of Christ who lavished his generosity on an unsuspecting couple at Cana, are not motivated by profit and can add value to all that’ (in Oliver 2012, p. xi). To take the wedding at Cana seriously means doing more than ‘adding value’ to the wedding as an event; the liturgy shapes a vision of marriage that faces the hopes and challenges of human commitment, while also pointing beyond an institution to God’s kingdom.

The Weddings Project focuses on three tasks: to attract more weddings in church; to build public awareness of the Church’s enthusiasm for marriage; to care for couples and guests well, so that more of them want to ‘stick with the church after the day’ (Oliver 2012, p. 6). It does not aim to set out a theology of marriage; rather, it seeks to inform pastoral ministry with secular research. Yet it is precisely the question of how we think theologically as well as pastorally about marriage that has become urgent following the headlines in the wake of the government’s decision to legislate for same-sex marriage. In the light of that decision, the research and analysis of the Weddings Project uses language that merits further consideration.

Marriage is seen by heterosexual couples surveyed by the Weddings Project as an expression of life-long commitment; and church is seen by the majority of those as the ‘proper’ context for the wedding itself. The Handbook acknowledges a sense of spiritual seriousness – seeking God’s blessing, making vows before God, affirming the sacred, affirming personal or family faith (Oliver 2012, pp. 14–15). Yet it also sees spending and lavish celebration as a corollary to this culmination of commitment: ‘A perfect crown is what they are yearning for, when they yearn for marriage’ (Oliver 2012, p. 12).

The Handbook reminds us that an approach to marriage that is liturgically rooted is concerned with connections: between the assumptions and hopes of the couple; between the nature of God’s love and human commitment; between those who are married and the wider community. It commends the use of visual symbols that reflect the story of the couple, which is held within the context of the overarching story of God’s love from creation, in redemption and in eschatological hope.

By engaging with the liturgical expression of private and public commitment, we uncover something of God’s purposes for human flourishing. The phrase ‘the perfect crown’ is used as an expression of lifelong commitment: how might a liturgical expression of this imagery deepen our ecclesial understanding of marriage, educating our desires and enlarging our minds? As responses to Rembrandt’s The Jewish Bride suggest, the capaciousness of marriage opens the couple to the cultivation of virtues. How might liturgy express a vision of the sanctification of human lives now, in the hope of the ultimate fulfilment of God’s purposes?

Alongside legal and historical developments, the richness and challenges of the biblical tradition and the deepening understanding of human gender and sexuality, our liturgical framework opens up ways of engaging theologically and pastorally with the question of marriage. Might same-sex marriage might be a continuation of a liberating trajectory in understanding marriage? Might our liturgy itself shape our understanding of marriage in a way that transcends inequalities between men and women; indeed, might extending this perfect crown to same-sex couples via the possibility of Church of England marriage be a redemptive step (Methuen 2013a)? This liberating trajectory in our understanding of marriage is rooted in the light of tradition and in the hope of the fulfilment of the kingdom of God.

 ‘God is love’

The first text to be cited in the Church of England marriage service is 1 John 4.16 (Archbishops’ Council 2001, p. 104). It declares that ‘God is love’. It is statement not just about the nature of God, but also of our capacity to reflect divine love in our lives: ‘Those who live in love live in God and God lives in them.’ This is a call to life lived within the love of God in the midst of community, rather than a description of romantic love embodied by the couple. At the very outset of the liturgy, marriage is set within a wider vision of all our human relationships. The opening prayer calls us to acknowledge God as not only the source of life, but of love, wonder, joy and grace. With echoes of 1 Corinthians 13 and the Church of England’s Collect for the nineteenth Sunday after Trinity, the prayer continues, ‘Without you we cannot please you; without your love our deeds are worth nothing.’ The Holy Spirit is invoked, not just upon the couple but upon the whole congregation gathered together. The Spirit pours into human hearts the ‘most excellent gift’ of love whose purpose is both worship and service. This in part echoes the constitution of the Church – as a community formed by facing the holiness of God in worship and enacting that holiness in the world.

The Collect that follows the declarations focuses on the generosity of God in creation – from the beginning, blessing it with abundant life. This vision for creation – and its redemption – rooted in the nature of God is also reflected in the prayer of blessing for the couple. The hope is that they may be joined in ‘mutual love and companionship, in holiness and commitment to each other’. The emphasis is striking in that it recognizes that abundance is a gift of God to all creation, and that this is not specifically related in terms of procreation to those about to be married. Rather, the prayer is for a flourishing of their relationship. This is focused on mutual love and holiness, which are to be the marks of all God’s people, and also on companionship and commitment within their life together. In Christ, stable relationships are built up in mutual trust. They are undergirded by grace and love, which are transformative because we are seen as precious; we are wanted.

Rowan Williams explores how ‘the whole story of creation, incarnation and our incorporation into the fellowship of Christ’s body tells us that God desires us, as if we were God, as if we were that unconditional response to God’s giving that God’s self makes in the life of the trinity. We are created so that we may be caught up in this; so that we may grow into the wholehearted love of God by learning that God loves us as God loves God’ (Williams 2003, p. 3; emphasis in original). It is this incorporation in the community of God’s holy people that makes sense of the body’s grace; that gives space and time to come to the knowledge of our bodily selves and desire. Williams talks about sex as risky – and not invariably graced. Locating ‘sexual union in a context that gives it both time and space, that allows it not to be everything’ enlarges our vision of physical intimacy and nourishes our sexuality (2003, p. 10). The liturgy gives a framework within which to explore joy, desire, stability and faithfulness, which are rooted in God’s love for us. Its imagery and language is relational and generative; it speaks of enriched communities and heavenly fulfilment. The coming together of two human lives in love, two bodies crowned and two hearts sealed, speaks of fruitfulness beyond procreation. This liturgical space revalues sexuality and embodiment with a generosity and challenge.

 ‘Marriage is a gift of God’

It might be said that the words of the Preface most clearly set out what the Church of England believes about the nature of marriage – in relation to God’s purposes, the world and the intimacy of life together as a couple. While the point is made that the couple marry each other (something picked up in The Church Weddings Handbook), the liturgy acknowledges that they do so in the presence of God and before a whole company of witnesses (invited guests and members of the Church community). The purpose of the gathering together with them is to pray for God’s blessing on them, as we have seen, but it is also to share in their joy and celebrate their love. This is a public marking of a prior commitment – of love that has grown and flourished. The relationship is to be a source of joy and celebration not just for the couple (a private matter) but for the wider community (a ‘perfect crown’).

Marriage is described in the Preface as a ‘gift of God in creation’ through which husband and wife ‘may know the grace of God’ (CW, p. 107). To speak of gift and grace, creation and divinity, broadens and deepens our understanding of marriage beyond the terms of a legal or civil contract (the earthy framework within which all legally recognized marriages are governed). It is an invitation to explore the nature of marriage as a way of life open to the cultivation of virtues – a way of holiness, a dynamic outworking of Rembrandt’s relational ‘altarpiece’.

Robert Song emphasizes three themes in relation to Genesis: that marriage is a created good; that it is a created good; and that it has a structure: faithfulness, permanence and openness to procreation (Song 2014, pp. 3–4). Yet to attend to deeper meanings of gift and grace, within a biblical as well as liturgical framework, is an invitation to model our patterns of life on Christ – whether in the home, workplace or church. As Alan Wilson puts it, the ‘spiritual and relational aspects of marriage are developed beyond considerations of sex, gender or children’ (Wilson 2014, p. 99). That does not undercut the fundamental goodness of marriage, nor the way it reflects the generative nature of creation. However, it roots faithfulness and permanence in God’s purposes.

A liturgy that shapes a theological vision of partnership and the ‘crowning summit’ of a committed loving relationship resonates with human longings (Wilson 2014, p. 120). Alan Billings expresses the power of the liturgy in giving a ‘voice’ to the couple as they seek to deepen an established relationship, and also articulating a vision that marriage is something good and God-given – enabling couples to flourish and live faithfully, and to raise children together (Billings 2004, pp. 75–9). However, given the trends he outlines in the rise of cohabitation and contractual relationships, the liturgy expresses a deeper and embracing vision of covenant that reflects a longing for stability and intimacy. It expresses a desire for fruitfulness and holiness directed outwards towards the world. It articulates an understanding of covenant as crown and seal. As Jessica Martin puts it, ‘No relationship in Christ can be transactional or contractual’; rather, there is a depth of attention as we seek to recognize and be recognized, as bodies become ‘the site of the sacred or holy’ (Martin 2013, p. xv).

Entering into marriage is the continuation of growth in love and trust. As deepening and flourishing of relationship takes place, ‘they shall be united with one another in heart and body and mind’ (CW, p. 105) as Christ is united with his bride the Church. By being rooted in Christ’s relationship with the body of Christ, categories of gender, sexuality and procreation are set in a radical vision of self-giving, mutuality and generosity. The gift of marriage brings husband and wife together in private and public ways: in the ‘delight and tenderness of sexual union, and in joyful commitment to the end of their lives’ (CW, p. 105). The grace of growth in physical intimacy, with the corresponding deepening of emotional, spiritual and intellectual bonds, is to be a delight in itself. This is not selfish or self-enclosed, but perhaps a subversion of the self-contained nuclear family. To live a life of joyful commitment in marriage, here and now, is a form of living well that may enable us to articulate a vision for dying well (regardless of marital status). Joyful commitment is an invitation to live intensely, yet lightly; to think about how we exercise our gifts and determine our priorities; to allow ourselves to love and be loved, to forgive and be forgiven. Marriage is a vocation that has the capacity to enable the couple of flourish but also causes us to reflect on a wider network of commitments.

None of this is to deny that part of the givenness of marriage is that it is the foundation of family life. This is expressed in a way that is not limited to parenthood. It is the context within which children are born ‘and nurtured’ (CW, p. 105) – a phrase that itself recognizes or alludes to the diversity of family life. The pastoral reality of this might include the couple’s own children as well as step-children; there might be the financial and emotional pressure to conceive through IVF or the decision to foster or adopt; some might be caught up in the lives of godchildren and grandchildren. As Martin states, biological kinship is not ‘the last word in permanent relationships’ (Martin 2013, p. xv). The liturgy includes the expectation that each member of the family (in good times and in bad) may find strength, companionship and comfort. There is more than a suggestion that this stretches our care and concern beyond the nuclear family; marriage, according to such an interpretation, is to be a gift to strengthen others. Again, growth in both maturity and love is to be a mark of married life – not just for the couple but for all those whose lives are bound up with theirs.

That marriage is a way of life made holy by God, which also enriches community, is a theme to which we will return. Dan Hardy’s work deepens our understanding of the call to holiness as part of the vocation of the people of God, which situates marriage within a wider network of ecclesial and social relationships. It is unsurprising that the liturgy makes reference to the wedding at Cana, because it is the only reference to Jesus’ attendance at a marriage feast. However, it also expands our vision of marriage. The blessing is not just upon the couple, who in John’s Gospel do not feature in the narrative; the wedding itself is blessed by the presence of Christ ‘with those celebrating’ (CW, p. 105). Again, this is an expansive vision of community life as the context for marriage; and, in interpretation of the Gospel text, something of the foretaste of the kingdom of God and that reveals the identity of Christ.

 ‘Marriage is a way of life made holy by God’

This multi-layered revelation reveals our calling: that our humanity has to be transformed by divine love. Jean Vanier reflects both on the particularity of marriage and on the cosmic vision. For Jesus, says Vanier, marriage is ‘the sign of a sacred union, enfolded in love that enables people to grow in forgiveness, tenderness, kindness and compassion’ (Vanier 2004, p. 52). This event is also offering the transformation of the ordinary; just at the point at which our human resources run out, ‘the drudgery of duty’ becomes a ‘new passion of love’ (2004, p. 53). The cries of humanity for the fulfilment of the promise of love echo throughout the Scriptures in language of wine and feasting, bridegrooms and brides, in abundance and generous invitation. That yearning is sated at the wedding feast of the Lamb: ‘The Spirit and the Bride say “Come.” Come, Lord Jesus!’ (Rev. 22.17, 20). All drawn to this feast find community and love. The vision is eschatological; but the reality is glimpsed in human promises and celebration.

How does the liturgy point to the kingdom of God’s breaking into our midst? Marriage can be expressed at a basic level as a legal contract. The advent of civil partnerships, and the subsequent legislation regarding equal marriage, highlight a human longing to express something more. Marriage is a sign of unity and loyalty that all should uphold and honour. This is not just because unity and commitment are worthy of celebration at a human level or because the risk of self-giving is a beginning and end in itself; rather, it is because this promise of fidelity – worked out with patience, humility and kindness in the face of death – is what Vanier calls ‘a taste and sign of eternity, a sign of the covenant that bonds God to his people’ (Vanier 2004, p. 58).

Again there is a mirroring of expectation between the life of the Church and the commitment in marriage; and there is a reciprocal call for support too. We live out this promise against the backdrop of hurt, disagreement and betrayal. It is because Jesus came to renew all things that our broken and fragile humanity is called into a new unity. The Church is called to be one, which is Jesus’ prayer; but as a microcosm of such relating, marriage is to be a sign of unity. Loyalty (or elsewhere faithfulness) is an expression of commitment that echoes the nature of God’s faithfulness to humanity. The honouring and upholding of this sign of marriage is not confined to the inner dynamics of the couple’s relationship. Rather, it is a responsibility that rests with all members of society.

Vanier describes the importance and beauty of the ‘bonding of man and woman in the oneness of human sexuality’; for such bonding to be affirmed at Cana reveals a deep desire and need to love and be loved (Vanier 2004, p. 59). Regardless of sexuality, such a biblical and liturgical vision of a love that is crown and seal is a prophetic vision for human life. Marriage, according to the Church of England liturgy, ‘enriches society and strengthens community’ (CW, p. 105): there is reciprocity and logic about such a statement. The couple needs the support of others to hold their shared life; their life together becomes a blessing in return. When human life is ordered along the patterns of mutual love and commitment, common life flourishes. It is a demanding pattern – as any reflection on the life of the Church or wider community reveals. Therefore it is to be entered into reverently and responsibly in the sight of God; as with the baptismal promises, this is not a place of selfishness. The commitment being made is not to be undertaken lightly. It is also a journey of hope: we cooperate in faith, trust and hard work.

Dan Hardy uses the term ‘sociopoiesis’ to capture the way relationships are formed and transformed in relation to God. As it embraces all spheres of personal and social activity including politics, economics, love and ethics, it seems appropriate to see marriage within this lens too. It holds together both the shaping of our individual personhood and the societal expressions of such transformation as our desires are redirected towards God, as well as seeking the well-being of friend and stranger. It is also a language that enables us to speak about the complexity and subtlety of the relationship between Church and world, which is pertinent when thinking about marriage within society and within God’s economy.

Hardy describes the way ‘care for the other’ draws on sacramental energy, for example (Hardy 2010, pp. 51–2). This finds expression as a crown and seal of love in marriage but it also reflects the challenge to pastoral care raised by the Weddings Project. The prophetic and priestly calling of the Church also imagines, speaks and enacts a calling to something better as society moves towards the fulfilment of God’s kingdom. A liturgical vision of marriage expresses something of the dynamism of this movement of attraction to God and calling to holiness.

The liturgy sets the commitment of the couple in the context of worship; it brings the light and love of God into their journey of deepening intimacy. It is a process of transformation as love is sealed and as it becomes a crown. Holiness and God are mutually defining. Divine holiness attracts, calls, refines; it is relational and performative as we improvise upon its ‘beauteousness’. Like Cumming’s description of The Jewish Bride, this is a trajectory of humility, patience and kindness. Hardy also argues that social institutions have a key role to play in the performance of holiness, and marriage is unequivocally part of the legal and civil fabric of society. In Hardy’s terms, these are ‘provisional approximations to the good’; for ‘every attempt to guide, to enact justice, to embody mercy, and to punish and forgive, must pass through the refining fire of God’s justice in order to partake of the unnamed qualities of holiness and to be energized by it’ (Hardy 2001, p. 19).

To set marriage in the context of worship means facing the holiness of God, as well as performing it within the realm of human social life. It is an anticipation of the kingdom of God. It is a moment of being drawn into the light and love of God, as two people who have journeyed together in mutual affection take the risk of entrusting all that they are and all that they have to each other. They do this in the face of our human propensity to make mistakes and the fragmentation caused by our misdirected desires.

 ‘United with one another in heart, body and mind’

It is God’s self-giving holiness that forms us, lifts us up and calls us into a pattern of life that moves us towards the good. Within the marriage service, entering this way of life is marked in three ways: mutual consent, solemn vows and the giving and/or receiving of rings as a token. There is freedom, promise and a sign. All these are reliant on the invocation of the Holy Spirit for guidance and strength – that they may fulfil God’s purpose for their earthly life together.

The wording of the Declarations that follow express the freedom to lawfully marry, but also express the qualities of marriage – love, comfort, honour and protection. The declarations are mutual and exclusive. Each party commits to forsake all others and to remain faithful as long as they live. Such exclusivity is followed by an expression of commitment on the part of the congregation who agree to support and uphold the couple. A marriage is not self-sustaining – they cannot forsake each other, nor is the community to forsake them.

The vows are made in the presence of God and according to God’s holy law: that from this day onwards, until death, each party will have and hold regardless of circumstance, loving and cherishing the other for better or worse, richer or poorer, in sickness and in health. The words are so easy to recite we forget just how all-encompassing and demanding they are. They are rooted in the covenantal promises of faithfulness. The fruitfulness of such a reciprocal bond is open ended. The bonding of sexuality and embodiment of which Vanier speaks is something that is beyond our human capacity to love; we will fall short of love’s promises. And yet, in God, we know the forgiveness and renewal that become the grounds of our human offering of love. All our human loves are rooted in God:

God is the end and fulfilment of human desire, and our generously conceived desires point beyond their objects towards God. Desire’s balancing point between past and future means that is can only exist as a gift nourished by a promise. Desire joins what has been to what will be, and when it is hallowed by an exclusive choice it can grow into a shared common life, faithfully given all the way to its last breath. (Martin 2013, p. xvi)

The rings are to be a token: a ‘symbol of unending love and faithfulness’ (CW, p. 109) and a reminder of the vow and covenant made in marriage. They are given and/or received within the love of God. All our human acts of trust and commitment are held within the unending love of one who is faithful; this act undergirds and sustains the frailty, vulnerability and imperfections of our human expressions of love. The words said express a physical honouring of the other and a sharing of resources or possessions. They are also an expression of the giving of oneself to the other; such mutual self-giving is something to which the people of God are called. It is in the giving of self that the other enables them to become more fully who they are. It is not a romantic sense of being ‘completed’ by the other but the opening up of something new and a deepening of capacity. It is a pattern rooted in God’s gift of God’s self in the incarnation.

It is following the consent, vows and the exchange of rings that the couple have declared their marriage; that marriage is proclaimed and acclaimed (often with applause as a precursor to the solemnity of the binding of hands and the affirmation that God has joined them together). The prayers of blessing over the couple ground this particular human expression of love in God’s generosity and creativity. God creates joy, gladness, pleasure, delight, love, peace and fellowship. Divine and human come together in this expression. God pours out abundance at the start of this new chapter of life together; it affirms and bears witness to a relationship that has already begun; and their love is to be both a seal on their hearts and a crown upon their heads. Just as the vows express commitment in all the complexity and conditions of life we experience, so God’s blessing is asked upon the spouses in work and companionship, wakefulness and sleep, joy and sorrow, life and death. All this is held within the perspective of God’s eternal kingdom.

Blessing, help and the riches of God’s grace are invoked that in marriage the spouses may please God in body and soul; and that ‘living together in faith and love’ they may ‘receive the blessing of eternal life’ (CW, p. 111). The provisionality of marriage in the face of death and in anticipation of the kingdom draws our attention to God: the source of blessing and the one whom we are called to delight. It is a modelling of a way of holiness; holiness in the sphere of companionship, marked by a seal and crown.

‘In joyful anticipation of heaven’

The prayers of intercession are for the couple and for their deepening engagement with the lives of others. To begin with, prayers of thanksgiving for the couple on their wedding day are couched in the nature of God, in God’s faithfulness and holiness, in echoing the opening prayer naming God as the source of life and spring of love. The prayer for a life-giving and lifelong marriage is also set in the context of God’s love and grace: that the relationship may be enriched and strengthened by God’s presence – in order that the spouses may bring comfort and confidence to each other in faithfulness and trust. Again, the nature of our human relating, in its most intimate sense, should mirror the divine and be sustained by it. This should be the pattern of all human relationships – as we grow in mutual affection and learn to become ambassadors of reconciliation.

The prayers are also about the public aspect of marriage and its impact on deepening the quality of our social networks. The home should be a place of hospitality – bringing ‘refreshment and joy to all around them’ (CW, p. 112). Love is not to be contained within the couple or directed solely to their immediate family. Rather, their love should ‘overflow to neighbours in need’ and ‘embrace those in distress’ (CW, p. 112). The perfect crown of a public commitment of love in marriage is expansive and generous. It is a way of holiness that is undergirded by the love and support of those who have shared in blessing, witnessing and celebrating the wedding. Marriage is not a private arrangement. It is one of the ‘goods of community’ that is worked out over a lifetime, within a rich tapestry of relationships; it is a ‘highly demanding’ kind of ‘lived out commitment’ of self-giving, which is a seal on the heart and a crown upon the head (Martin 2013, p. xiv).

Order and purpose for the spouses’ lives is to be discerned in God’s word; with the Holy Spirit to ‘lead them in truth and defend them in adversity’ (CW, p. 112). There is something generous and expansive about this, which sits alongside the vision of abundance amid paucity, blessing in the ordinary, as expressed at the wedding at Cana. Nurturing a family demands devotion; and seeing children ‘grow in body, mind and spirit’ (CW, p. 113) is part of the fruitfulness of married life. This is not a restrictive statement: it might include godchildren, adoptive children and the assumption that marriage enables a trust in the future and the nurturing of relationships.

All this is set within the context of death: that, at the end of their lives, the spouses’ hearts might be content, and that they might live in joyful anticipation of heaven. This extends the understanding of marriage beyond an earthly covenant or legal contract to a vision of God’s kingdom: life now that mirrors the ultimate kingdom. Finally, words are addressed not just to the couple but to the whole congregation: that the Holy Trinity may make them strong in faith and love; that they may be defended on every side and be guided in truth and peace. Lives lived corporately in the power of the Spirit: this is a pneumatological vision that undergirds human commitment.

 ‘You have blessed creation with abundant life’

If Rembrandt presents us with an altarpiece of virtues associated with marriage – as a crown and seal, inclusive and exclusive – it is perhaps Mike Leigh’s film Another Year that presents us with a secular challenge to how we understand marriage in relation to the complex network of relationships within which we live. Leigh captures our human frailty with great honesty, both in tenderness and challenge, but also with a surprising hopefulness. Tom and Gerri are a mature, professional married couple: they exude comfort and contentment. Over the course of a year – marked by shifts in seasonal tones – they are surrounded by family and friends, who experience varying degrees of unhappiness and tribulation.

Their son Joe longs to be in a relationship and find fulfilment; his parents certainly wish that for him. He meets Katie, and their delight in each other and intense commitment serve to magnify his parents’ contentment. Yet Tom and Gerri’s friends, Mary and Ken, by contrast, find their loneliness and longing exaggerated. They are depressed, dependent, disillusioned; fragile, yet taking risks in their longing for love, intimacy and commitment. Then there is Tom’s brother Ronnie – recently bereaved, with an aggressive and unpredictable son.

Tom and Gerri fret, judge, cajole and support from their vantage point of stability. Around them is the maelstrom of hurt, grief, brokenness and longing. They are generous up to a point; they are tolerant within certain bounds. Their faithful commitment in marriage ought to enable hospitality, support of those in distress, the nurturing of relationships. In reflection on liturgy we have focused on faithfulness and intimacy as a crown on the head and seal on the heart; on exclusivity for the purpose of including others.

What we say about marriage relates directly to what we might want to say about the life of the Church (and indeed God’s world and God’s kingdom). Each one of us, alone and together, is called up to offer hospitality, comfort, encouragement, challenge. In Leigh’s film it is in the all but silent ritual of making tea and sitting at a table that we see compassion breaking in. A grief-stricken widower and distressed singleton show an intense level of mutual recognition and compassion.

Love and marriage can be a cause of deep hurt and frustration as well as a life-enriching blessing. Lives unravel through a lack of intimacy, through unfaithfulness or the inability to adjust to change within a marriage. Being human means finding ourselves caught up in a cycle of pain, brokenness, guilt and betrayal. The frailty of our mortality means that we find ourselves ‘alone’ because of divorce, death or never finding a partner; others might fear commitment or seek fulfilment in sexual ‘encounters’ rather than stable relationships. The question of loneliness, however, affects those who live alone and those who share their homes with others. Any liturgical theology has to address those realities. It does so from the perspective of an ultimate reality.

It speaks of love as crown and seal; not as perfect in itself but a breaking in and affirmation of what God has already done in Christ. What Vanier describes as a deep bonding of our sexuality is about fostering intimacy: emotional, spiritual, intellectual as well as physical. Marriage has the potential to be a crucible where lives are refined in holiness. It is a deep bonding that cultivates virtues – the gifts of patience, kindness and humility. Thus it is also to be a crown as well as a seal – there is a radically inclusive public engagement born out of the trust of exclusivity. In that sense liturgy educates and directs our desires and it enlarges our minds. It moves beyond quirky responses to the Weddings Project to a hopeful and challenging vision of marriage that is rooted in community and in God.

As John Bradbury hints in this volume, within the life of the Church perhaps we need to recover a sense of marriage as being a way of holiness – supporting those who enter into it after serious thought but also upholding those for whom it is a longing or a disappointment. As a holy people we are also to ‘think single’, as John Pritchard expresses it (Pritchard 2013, p. 122). Part of being able to think that way is to think more holistically about what it is to be members of a body – called to that same level of intimate commitment in Christ yet also sent out in the power of the Spirit to witness in the world. Liturgy expresses the depth of God’s love and holds open the long view of God’s future, which is our ultimate hope. That perspective transforms and upholds the complexity of our lived reality. The provisionality of our human relationships, our propensity to fail, is redeemed. As Martin writes with honesty and compassion, ‘We will fail. Because we are flawed … we need to forgive each other even as we hope to be forgiven. Relationships too will fail; but no bond of love can ever be forgotten or belittled’ (Martin 2013, p. xvi). A liturgical vision of marriage is a challenge to both Church and society as it expresses a theological account of a union that is both intimate/exclusive and generous/inclusive. It presents a vision of God’s Kingdom that seals the deepest levels of trust and affection; but that also crowns relationships with a love that seeks the transformation of the world. To think liturgically about marriage is to think imaginatively at full stretch – to continue a trajectory that is rooted in the nature of God and that does justice to human lives. Perhaps we should be wary of making things too tidy this side of the eschaton. As Rowan Williams expresses it in his haiku on John 2:

Poured from this stone, the water
stings, the mind lurches, suspects
joy, chaos. (Williams 2014, p. 33)

 

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Billings, Alan, 2004, Secular Lives, Sacred Hearts, London: SPCK.
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Gittoes, Julie, Brutus Green and James Heard (eds), 2013, Generous Ecclesiology: Church, World, and the Kingdom of God, London: SCM Press.
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Julie Gittoes is Residentiary Canon at Guildford Cathedral. She chaired the SCM Press disucssion panel ‘Word Made Flesh: Does the Church Really Need Academic Theology’, held at St Martin-in-the-Field last month. You can hear a recording of the discussion here. 

 

Bonhoeffer’s ‘Letters and Papers’ 1 -April/May 1943


9780334055082Later this month we’re publishing a new edition of Bonhoeffer’s Letters and Papers from Prison, with a new introduction from Samuel Wells. Still as relevant, prophetic and theologically profound as when they were first written, the Letters offer a deeply challenging insight into the true cost of discipleship. 

Over the next few weeks, we’ll be offering you some extracts. Today, two letters from 1943, shortly after Bonhoeffer was first arrested. He had endured several years of harassment and threat from the Nazi authorities, but resolved to remain in Germany. “I will have no right to participate in the reconstruction of Christian life in Germany after the war if I do not share the trials of this time with my people”, he said. In January 1943, Bonhoeffer became engaged to Maria von Wedemeyer. Three months later he was arrested for involvement in the German resistance movement. 


To his parents

 14 April 1943

I do want you to be quite sure that I’m all right. I’m sorry that I was not allowed to write to you sooner, but I was all right during the first ten days too.  Strangely enough, the discomforts that one generally associates with prison life, the physical hardships, hardly bother me at all. One can even have enough to eat in the mornings with dry bread (I get a variety of extras too). The hard prison bed does not worry me a bit, and one can get plenty of sleep between 8 p.m. and 6 a.m. I have been particularly surprised that I have hardly felt any need at all for cigarettes since I came here; but I think that in all this psychological factors have played a decisive role. A violent mental upheaval such as is produced by a sudden arrest brings with it the need to take one’s mental bearings and come to terms with an entirely new situation – all this means that physical things take a back seat and lose their importance, and it is something that I find to be a real enrichment of my experience. I am not so unused to being alone as other people are, and it is certainly a good spiritual Turkish bath.

…The seventy-fifth birthday celebrations were a fortnight ago today. It was a splendid day. I can still hear the chorale that we sang in the morning and evening, with all the voices and instruments: ‘Praise to the Lord, the Almighty, the King of Creation . . . Shelters thee under his wings, yea, and gently sustaineth.’ That is true, and it is what we must always rely on.

Spring is really coming now.


To his parents

    15 May 1943

. . People outside find it difficult to imagine what prison life is like. The situation in itself – that is each single moment – is perhaps not so very different here from anywhere else; I read, meditate, write, pace up and down my cell – without rubbing myself sore against the walls like a polar bear. The great thing is to stick to what one still has and can do – there is still plenty left – and not to be dominated by the thought of what one cannot do, and by feelings of resentment and discontent. I’m sure I never realized as clearly as I do here what the Bible and Luther mean by ‘temptation’. Quite suddenly, and for no apparent physical or psychological reason, the peace and composure that were supporting one are jarred, and the heart becomes, in Jeremiah’s expressive phrase, ‘deceitful above all things, and desperately corrupt; who can understand it?’ It feels like an invasion from outside, as if by evil powers trying to rob one of what is most vital. But no doubt these experiences are good and necessary, as they teach one to understand human life better.

I’m now trying my hand at a little study on ‘The feeling of time’, an experience specially relevant to anyone who is being held for examination. One of my predecessors here has scribbled over the cell door, ‘In 100 years it will be over.’ That was his way of trying to counter the feeling that life spent here is a blank; but there is a great deal that might be said about that, and I should like to talk it over with father. ‘My time is in your hands’ (Ps. 31) is the Bible’s answer. But in the Bible there is also the question that threatens to dominate everything here: ‘How long, O Lord?’ (Ps. 13) . . .

… I am reading the Bible straight through from cover to cover, and have just got as far as Job, which I am particularly fond of. I read the Psalms every day, as I have done for years; I know them and love them more than any other book. I cannot now read Psalms 3, 47, 70, and others without hearing them in the settings by Heinrich Schutz. It was Renate who introduced me to his music, and I count it one of the greatest enrichments of my life . .


The new edition of Letters and Papers from Prison is published later this month. Order a copy here

“The heart ignites. Boom. We are on our way.”

In Igniting the Heart Kate Bruce, Deputy Warden, Tutor in Homiletics and CODEC Research Fellow in Preaching at Cranmer Hall, Durham, argues for a rediscovery of the imagination in preaching. Here’s an extract:


igniting-the-heart_photoPicture the scene. It’s Wednesday. You are sitting at the dining-room table surrounded by scribbled notes on screwed-up pieces of paper. You have done your homework. You read the passages earlier in the week and have been praying and pondering over them. You’ve now focused on and wrestled with the text, identified possibilities and difficulties, chased down ideas in commentaries, prayed and pondered some more and yet you have nothing concrete to work with. The laptop is fired up, but you are not.

Meanwhile the clock is ticking.

Sack it all. You snap the lead on the dog and head for the hills. The internal panic monster growls in your ear. As you walk, ideas and snippets of the text come to mind and drop away. A possibility starts tugging at your sleeve, but as you turn to look it flits off – a half-baked idea, it is dismissed. Returning home, other things press in and occupy your attention. The sermon worries are set aside. Meanwhile, as yet unnoticed, deep in your imagination something starts to stir.

At this stage in the sermon preparation process I have learned to trust that somehow it will come together – an approach that mugs the panic monster. When I return to focused preparation I discover that while my conscious mind was dealing with the day to day, the sermon was taking shape. Something seems to have happened in the incubator of my imagination. Impressions gathered as I strolled through the biblical landscape might tug insistently at my sleeve. Odd thoughts connect with ideas I might have picked up in a commentary or a conversation. Perhaps overheard snippets from the supermarket queue will float into consciousness and offer themselves as illustrative material. Scripture speaks to Scripture and sets up resonances. Links are forged: a scene from a film; a picture in the paper; a headline; a Facebook comment; a line from a song; a Tweet. Seemingly random materials seem to fuse together and the sparks start flying. The structural framework emerges from scribbled ideas. Scripture, image, day-to-day instances and applications are welded into shape; form and content inform each other.

I picture the preaching space and play with delivery ideas as I pace around the living room: gesture; eye movement; use of space; tonal variation; verbal emphasis. The dog looks quizzical. I rehearse possibilities on the stage of my imagination, playing with the sermon material, hammering it out on the anvil of possibility. I find myself engaged, absorbed and focused. The blue touch-paper is lit. The heart ignites. Boom. We are on our way.

This is invariably my experience in sermon preparation, which is a process that takes me through the valley of creative despair (where I have no ideas and on a bad day don’t want the hassle), up to the heights of delight in the privilege of exploring with people the power of the ancient text alive in the present moment, inexorably pulling us towards the love of God.

Of course, working on a sermon prior to the delivery is only half the story. Arguably the sermon doesn’t become such until it is delivered live in the event. Here the lifeless text or notes become the sermon as the preacher interacts with the congregation, and in that specific context the Spirit breathes life into dead words. Some ideas are dropped; improvisation might lead to new thoughts and ideas as the preacher works on their feet, responding to the nudge of the Spirit in the moment of delivery. As they speak, the sermon leaves them and wings its way to the hearer, where it might take a new shape as it fuses with themes in the life of the whole community; in this person’s current life experience; in that person’s present concerns or hopes. As different hearers apply aspects of the preached material to their own situation, other sermons are heard, birthed from the one preached.

Perhaps this view of preaching is too positive. It is also true that the sermon may die in stony cynicism, become buried in the soil of distraction or worst of all nosedive into the barren rocks of boredom. The day of the poorly conceived, ill-prepared, dull, disconnected, boring, irrelevant, authoritarian, yawn-inducing, patronizing, pontificating, pointless and badly delivered sermon is most emphatically over. However, I want to go in to bat for the enduring power of the sermon. Imaginatively conceived and delivered, guided by the revelatory impulse of God, the sermon has the potential to move and inspire people; in short, it can ignite the heart.

The image behind the title for this book, Igniting the Heart, suggests a sense of words pulsing with revelatory potential, leaping out and sparking connections in the imagination of the hearer. This is an understanding of preaching laden with illuminating possibility, the ‘Aha’ moment when the switch flips, the lights go on and we see anew. For preaching to ignite the heart, it must spark connections with the hearer. Achieving such connection requires the active engagement of the imagination of the preacher and hearer.

The imagination is of vital importance for preaching. In all the stages of the sermon process the human imagination, filled with the revelatory power of God, is at work: in prayer; in biblical spadework; in observation and reflection; in mulling and contemplation; in the unconscious fusion of ideas; in the play of words on the page; in the forging of empathetic connection and the logical linking of ideas; in the work of performance; in the task of reception and action. Imagination matters to preaching.

This book explores how we might helpfully understand the work of imagination and why it matters so much to preaching. It examines the theological and practical consequences of this and offers preachers ways of strengthening their imaginative muscle. With this in mind, imagination needs to feature in homiletics teaching, both as a subject in its own right and as a factor shaping the approach to the structure and delivery of curriculum content. The purpose of this book is to inspire and equip preachers and homiletics teachers to be imaginative in the way they think about, prepare and deliver sermons.

 

Just Published: The SCM Studyguide to Preaching

SCMSG PREACHING (002).jpgWe’ve just published our new SCM Studyguide to Preaching by Peter Stevenson. Peter is Principal of South Wales Baptist College. Previously he taught at Spurgeon’s College in London, where he was the Director of Continuing Ministerial Development.

Our hope is that our new Studyguide will provide a much-needed introduction to the practice of preaching. It is designed for people from various church traditions, in the early stages of ministerial formation. Preaching is a complex and challenging business requiring a demanding mixture of skills. People listening to a sermon have the right to expect that a person who stands up to preach, can interpret the Bible competently, has a grasp of core Christian beliefs, and believes what they preach. They also expect someone who has the necessary range of communication skills to put the message across in an accessible way. Such a range of expectations presents daunting challenges to the most experienced preacher, and the Studyguide is designed to help preachers deal with those challenges. It includes practical exercises which could be used by individuals or by groups. Paula Gooder had this to say:

“This thoughtful yet practical guide to the art of preaching is a brilliant resource both for those new to preaching and for experienced preachers who are looking for ideas to reinvigorate how they preach. It blends helpful theory with down-to-earth examples in such a way that captures and communicates Peter Stevenson’s own passion for preaching. A must for every preacher’s bookshelf.”

We’re also putting together some extra resources, such as accompanying worksheets and a video introduction for each chapter available online – you’ll be able to access this content very soon. In the meantime, though, here’s a sneak preview of one of the videos. Here Peter Stevenson introduces Chapter 1: